something that came into my mind when i was awake this morning...hate, jealousy and envy. Wat is the difference between these 3?? All 3 a kind of emotion i will say...good emotion bad emotion??...taht is up to you to decide. Hate an emotion that u dislike about something, jealousy is then the emotion of feeling unease, unsatisfying when someone achieve something, Envy is then the feeling of unease when someone has something and makes u wan it too. Well jealousy n envy might be the similar but actually is diff, go look thru up the dictionary...
So wat am i gonna talk about here?...many times in our life we face situation that gives rise to these 3 feelings, am i not rite??? As we grow up, we face more different situation in life and something that we dislike badly we say we hate it. When ur best friend become the worlds something wont we get jealous of their achievement?? It may not be that great as world's something....mayb something more simpler as better achievement in academic than you. Envy??...dun talk about it there is plenty of time we envy of people. When we see someone has a cool thing somewhere in our heart envy about it thinking, i wan that too.
And funny how these 3 emotions too can makes us do stuff. We may hate someone so badly that we have the intention to kill, or hate something that badly to destroy it. Jealousy can cause us to harm people or back stab just to achieve wat we wan or see someone fall from glory. And envy, with much envy we can steal, rob just to get that thing that we envy.
How do we overcome this??....well this is not the one way to overcome this feeling, jsut how i overcome my way...i always feel content with wat i have. I mean, i always remind of myself, that many more people is living worst than me, not as fortunate as me and yet i still wan more till the extend where these feelings arise. i mean why should i be jeoulous of someone??...envy about someone??...everyone of us is different and achieve things in different areas and best in something that someday we will discover. To overcome hate..is love, to love someone is not easy and love as in a couple love, but brotherly love, to forgive wat is wrong. i'm still in the process of working it but then at least i think i'm on the rite track.
1 comment:
hye this post is good. Look in life each of us have desire. I do. I beleive u do. As u said jealousy and envy, we all do and will have this kind of emotions . It is in us. Jealousy and envy causes ppl to hate another person i believe...and yea to hate someone is easy but to love someone is hard. To love someone who hurts u before even harder. Trust me. Its never easy., As my post it hurts says, it hurts when u love someone but that someone is hurting u badly. well a nice post as a whole.!
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