Guilt...

Is guilt a good thing or a bad thing??...hmmm...opinions?? mine??....well according to Dictionary.com, guilt, from the American Heritage Dictionary means....

1. The fact of being responsible for the commission of an offense. See Synonyms at blame.
2. Law Culpability for a crime or lesser breach of regulations that carries a legal penalty.
3. 1. Remorseful awareness of having done something wrong.
   2. Self-reproach for supposed inadequacy or wrongdoing.
4. Guilty conduct; sin.

so i guess everyone can figure wat it means...but i want to focus on no 3 here.

A remorseful awareness of having done something wrong /self reproach for supposed inadequacy or wrong doing....hmm...again is it a good thing or wrong??...Well to a certain extend it is a good thing. As in if u know u are wrong and u admitted and change from that point on isnt that good?? But then it might be bad thing in my opinion, feeling too guilty over small matters that doesnt mean a wrong at all.

many time people, including me feels like this, we say we are sorry coz we feel bad coz of something we done etc. But does it mean that way to the person u are saying to?? i mean that person might be like understands ur situation for being/acting/saying those stuff and told u that it is ok no need to feel bad etc...should we continue to feel bad about it??i think we shouldnt. I mean if a person can say it is alrite to you then y make urself miserable by feeling bad all the time and apologise for a million time?? And this not only happens when u feel that u have done somethign wrong, when people treat u to a meal, often we too feel uncomforatble as in it is not rite for that someone to treat u to a meal. Again, if that person is willing to treat u to a meal means he wouldnt mind in the first place, just be thankful and appreciate it.

Well if cant understand wat i'm trying to say here...then forgive me...i've a hard time thinking how to typed this too...