Now i know why for many months i dun really feel like back in Msia. Reason is there is no nite life here even though there is, it is far from my place. Nite life as in supper, yam cha(dun be mixed up with the yam cha here, which to them is morning breakfast dim sum), and talks. Though every sub-urb has a place for eat n drink but not every sub-urb has it till late nite. And not everyone stays in the same sub-urb. If u gonna ask me is it really that important?? for me yeah it is, coz i find it the best time to talk to one another face to face discussing about things. It is as though no barriers exist though everyone of us conciously and unconciously keeps some things to our own mind. And to me also during this time that i can understand more how people thinks about certain stuff. And this part is also where i learn more about things, cause everyone thinks and do things differently and there is a reason why which is coz by wat they think or wat they percieve, their own set of principles like on certain/particular thing. And knowing them change mind as i absorb and change it to my liking or wat i feel is rite or how it should be, there is where i grow. At least i think that is one way how people grow mentally.I remembered a saying, wait..i think is 2 sayings...watever...that we learn from mistakes, but a life time is not enuf to learn all the mistakes so learn other people's mistake too...or something like that, go figure the saying urself...well we just learn the mistakes, i think we should learn everything, opinions and thoughts, that way all will grow together.
And that leads me to my next point about judging thoughts. I opinion on this is opinions and thoughts of others should not be judge, if it were to be judge, judge ur own thoughts and opinions first. Coz i find that when we judge another's thoughts and opinions is like forcing one's thought onto another to follow, and the purpose to learn and grow is gone. Even if one's thoughts could be wrong/not rite, who are we to judge, at least i think i'm in no position to judge. If i feel it is wrong i just share my thoughts on it, whether the person change his/her opinion is entirely up to them and i got to respect that.
Of course when comes to sharin one's thoughts/opinions, i think there should always be a certain level of awareness that we shouldnt offend another. When we say and share our thoughts and it somehow offend another then it just shuts that person's mind and i believe all that person could think is judgin wat u say and talking all the a-hole shit in the mind about u. I remembered someone said to me that i post wat i would just like to share on my thoughts, the fact is that is half true, coz wat i post is really wat i thought of and it is my opinion, but at the same time the amout i filter to post it here is so much that i think if post everything here there is a high probability that i will offend everyone, and i dun wan to offend anyone...though i cant eliminate the probability of offending someone, but i could reduce it.
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