I believe everyone at some point in thier life thought of getting married then having children. And i was thinking what if you're spouse has some kind of sickness like diabetes, STDs or cancer than could affect the child would you still want to have children after getting married?? or when you find out that the person you love have this kind of sickness before married and decide to break off and find another. Well if break off, i would say that is just mean and horrible. Coz sickess should be the factor that determine whether you should get married of wat so ever. But if is coz of wanting to hav children u get married then somehow i feel like u r treating the other half like a production machine the sole purpose is to help u get kids.
Back to the first question. Would you still wan to have a child after knowing the sickness exist in you could addect the child? Seriously, i dunno wat i will do. Is like at one point, i dun wan my child to be suffered with sickness such as STDs is just a horrible thing to happen to a kid, but at the same time i wan to hav a child of my own. But then again there is always the spouse to discuss with. I mean in a marriage it wont be a 1 sided thing anymore both should help make the decision, besides u need both for the child to happen=P
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