Indescribable...maybe not afterall..think it thru...

wat is indescribable u may ask. well lets ponder and think for a while wat is indescribable?? There might be other indescribable things that may come into ur mind. But wat i'm gonna say is love. I mean can u describe why u love someone besides the fact tat loving someone gives u happiness?? I read somewhere before that love comes without reasons and i think is thru coz if u love someone coz of the reason then when that reason is gone does that mean we dun love that person anymore??!!

To me loving is not only about caring for someone, be there for someone, to love someone for something that please u but rather is the desire to be be with that someone, to have that relationship with someone, and to love also includes loving the whole packge whether it is good or bad. I mean y did God love us??? can u describe y??? coz He created us then we are loved(well that may partly be the reasons y)???, but i think God really love us coz He has the desire to be with us, to have that relationship with us. If nto why go thru the trouble of sending Jesus into our midst and die for us to save us so that we will be able to be with Him. God still love us when we are sinners(the bad part of us that is), He still send His son to save us didnt He?!!! many people says loving a person is everything good yeah of course it was meant to be good(look at the beginning of mankind, God, Adam n Eve...everything was good back then and there is love among them).

This bad part of us i'm saying is even though we are being love(which includes bothe good and bad of each other) does that mean we shouldnt change to be good?? throwing all out bad habits away. Coz i believe too that once we love someone we dun want to hurt the ones we love with bad stuff too isnt it?? so shouldnt we change and throw all the bad stuff out of us. Of course it is always saying it is the easiest but doing it is another thing. but if dun make the effort there wont be a difference in just letting how things is. many couples complain there the other one is asking them to change etc etc etc. Even though there should be the change but the change should come naturally i think and the person should know that the change is needed personally. i mean if i keep nagging u to change i bet i'll be like an old hag in ur mind that keep complaining the bad stuff to u, isnt it?? The person also need to realise it coz if they dun realise how bad the bad stuff is hurting thier relationship then no matter wat the other is saying it will end up a complain to the ears and both the couple will say at their break up that they dun match and say complain too much about each other.

I think in a relationship both sides have to make it work!!! Whether is about caring, doing, but changing for the better good of the relationship is part of making it work. i hate it when people says the relationship is not workign coz they dont fit each other's personality while nothing is beign done. If relationship can just be match like a pair of chopsticks then shouldnt this world be filled with happy couples??!! Everytime we forget that we are not perfect. In a realtionship espcially that always one side things they are better than the other, the fact is we are better than the other in certain areas vice versa which also means we are equal no supremacy over each other. All of us has our own flaws so wat makes u think one is better than the other??!!