Understanding another....

Understanding a person is not an easy thing. Many times we try to understand y a person does certain stuff in a certain way. But that can never be anser unless we ask them. But then agian that is not a guarantee way we can get the answer we seek, for sometimes they themselves dun understand. So wat should we do??...should we hate those actions done by them and hurt u?? Should be ignore them when we c them?? i think no matter how freaking hard this would be, coz it sound damn freaking easy, we should always make nice with them. Well i myself is making effort on it. People may hurt u with their words which is wrong but the moment we hate them back and curse them, then we are at fault too. I know many of us might not care whether that person did the rite thing or wrong, but by hating someone then we are wrong. Isnt that important?? Go think things thru...