One thing in a relationship there is always complications and break ups. 2 things that happen in relationship that brings down, sad, emo, frustration feeling to us.
Break ups, it has become so common to us that though when break ups first happen in our world is suppose to be a sad thing...but now it has become something like a common practice. Though the grief stills happen to one side or at times both but some just play around in relationships, just get into one and break up the next day. Those is wat i call dumb idiots.
Complications or commonly known as complicated status which has started in the olden days coz of things happening that they cant be together, has now too become common. For an instance, long distance, parents refusal, cultural barrier etc...To me, relationship is between 2 person, no matter wat, to be together or not...is still up to the 2 person. If long distance, yes there is the high risk, but to make it work...both do thier part. Parents refusal, abit hard...but convince them alr. Cultural barrier??...even things should work out easier...i mean wat age is this?? this is an age where cross cultural is a common thing. Look at Msia...there is already chinese with indians, chinese with the malays, malays with the indians. Even overseas has ang mo with asians. So wat does this cultural barrier has got to do with complications?!! of course there is many more complications, but at the end it still comes back to the 2 person lar...
Well....at the end of the day....is not me or any other who is out of the relationship...aka the 3rd party to be kepo about it. Just be sure to know that when they need some listening ear/advice or watever u call it, just be prepared and give opinion and not how to win the other side list....
5 comments:
hey..is true. .. well at times is not both parties who do not want to make it but it s the risk that both party will hurt one another at d one the day. Long distance r/ship is hard to work out cz both cant see each other physically and emotionally both cant be there together. its often replaced by some other people.
for culture, say is easy but when it happens to u..is hard. trust me.
parents, always has the mindset they are always true. Convince them is ain't easy. At times where u need to come to a point where u need to choose parents or partner. who will u choose?
if the person u like can be replaced...then is that person really u like?!....is 2 different person..and how could 1 replace the other. The moment u like someone else then is obvious is a change of heart...and is not replace...
what i mean replaced is being there, like and love is diff thing. let me ask u a ques, how do u feel when u needed him/her so much badly but him/her can't be there. u feel disappointed rt? even deep down in ur heart u know it is impossible him /her can be there and when disappointments keeps on coming eventually u feel tired, even u try to be strong.Den u will start thinking and evaluating ur decisions. How long u wanna be in disappointments? forever? changing of heart will happen when a person get so much disappointments and him/her can't just be there to comfort. We wanted him/her to be there and comfort but each time when u needed someone him/her is not here, but others ppl are there yes u r thankful but deep with ur heart how do u really feel?
i'll be thankful to my fren who is there for me...with no feelings attached....
and even if she cant there for me...i'll understand coz it has been known to me in the first place...and i wont start that relationship if i know i cant handle the probs that may arise from LDR...
is good u appreciate but let me tell u i have been thru lots of disappointments and i know u too and many others, when the disappointments increase there are things will eventually fades. And u will k=never knwo whether can u handle it until and unless u try it.
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