Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Sex...

Haha...well i read jess blog the other day and then someone left a msg on her blog linking to the person's blog which goes on the topic about sex.

Sex!! Is that word a taboo?? well i dun think is a taboo but y is it that to some people that word shouldnt be said at all?? I think it is just because is something personal and shoud happen between 2 person, at least that is the reason i could think of, why would it be taboo-ed then?? Well in this era where sex has been in almost every media(movies, tv, music, pictures etc) it has become a common thing to many. But yet there is some who is not exposed to it.

To those that are not exposed to it, congrats on being pure and innocent, seriously being a teenager and yet not exposed to it is i would say almost a rare person to find. Most of my frens are exposed to sex education(this would be a nicer and proper way to put it=P) and usually when we find one who doesnt know a thing about it(this reminds me Hans...hahaha) somehow get influenced and be educated=P

Now i'm not saying that exposed to sex education is a bad thing well it is a good thing that at least u will know the danger having sex. I'm not here to educate u, if u wanna know more and be educated u go find out urself. Of couse when u r a teenager the hormones kicks in and gets u attracted to someone of the opposite gender. Well y this happen to us in out body for solely reproduction purposes when we are ADULTS and MARRIED. It is a gift from God when a man and a woman become one. So dun go having sex all around the place....i'm saying this coz it is the rite thing to do. There is always own judgement provided knowing where the line is and not crossing the line.

Now as i mention above about another person's blog in that blog she asked the guys...let me quote 'Would you mind if your wife is not a virgin anymore? Or you fool around with girls but still demand for a virgin wife?' My answer, if the girl i love and married to me is not virgin, i cant do anything about it, besides if she is my wife means i love her which means not only am i gonna care for her but also to accept everything of her, both bad and good. And to be honest of course knowing the fact that she is not virgin anymore does bother me a little but am i gonna let a small matter like this to ruin everything in a relationship?! No i will not let that happen. And to the second part, i wont fool around it is not me=P...hahaha. But i'm not saying that i dun mind guys go fooling around, i feel that they bring bad name to the guys. But then guys shouldnt get the full blame on foolng around, though there isnt many but there is girls that fool around with boys and that is wrong too...conclusion is both guy n gal shouldnt be fooling around.

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