Family...

family family family....wat does it comes to ur mind when this word comes to ur mind?? The irritating siblings?? the unreasonable parent?? the wierd member of the family?? or ur future child/ husband/ wife?? So wat is family?? that u got to really ask urself about it who is ur family.

To me, family is the people that matters to me who i cared(though at times i dun show it at times, not because i dun wan to is just that i feel i dun need to show 24/7 or mayb i just dunno wat to say) and in this family though i have dislikes about it but they are still my family, besides they are not perfect, non of us are. And thru time i learn to respect them not coz they are always rite...but rather they are family and each of us needs a certain level of respect at least that is my opinion. No matter how wrong they can be and u dun get to say a damn thing...they are still family and somehow forgiveness is needed to be in place. Where is the logic in it??...dun ask me i'm not the expert in this but yet this is how most of the time we do. We always get all hot headed over the matter when we know we are rite and they are wrong but somehow we still can talk to each other after some time....i mean if it were frens...when arguments comes and both fail to win the other side we somehow reject the other as frens. Of course there are those cases where frenship still exist after it.

And talking about family...i believe somehow everyone will sure thing of having thier own family at least in some point in ur life u will. And when comes to this i bet most of us will think, i will not do this, this, this, this, that, that like wat my father/mother/bro/sis did to me, believing that u can do better than them in ur own family. Well the truth is i think that is possible, it is possible to be better than how u were brought up by ur family. At the same time i also will say that how we were brought up will also be the influence on how we gonna bring up our child. And with this it bring me to think how am i gonna teach my child when i have one next time. Am i gonna punish them for every mistake like i had mine??(seriously i had that in mind and is not a pleasent thing to think of) Will my child be as stubborn as me?? Well i guess i just need to leave it in God's hands for everything to be well eh?! =P

So readers....wat does family means to u?? who they are?? wat u gonna do about it?? go figure it urself=P