Every now and then talking with an old friend is good....in fact i enjoy it...coz besides catching up...there is always this thing we always do...asking questions which some is just plain random while others just make you think.
And just when we are into the topic of relationship, question being asked: Will you ever had another chance with ur ex, as in get back wiht her if there is the chance...Well aint that the common question being asked when they know u had an ex...Now at first i thought it was a totally random question...coz the last time i was in a relationship it was like...3 years ago..so practically it was a long long time and i just dunno wat to answer my friend. After giving some thought i said that i dun think i'll ever get back...reason is that we have been like 3 years apart and things has change over the years and i believe both is looking for different things in life.
Now i find it funny that if we started together and spend time thru the years like 3 years no matter how different the thigns we seek in life as we grow older, somehow i think the relationship would still conitnue on...with give and take from both sides. But if started and separated...and a chance to get back togethr...i dun think it will be that easy to just get back together though both looking for different things in life yet is just felt difficult to get back together. Mayb is coz of the year that has been spend together that has make the difference of learning to move together as a couple....
Oh well seeing how random the question to me is..i ask back why was i being asked abt this and to find out that my freind wanted to get back with the ex...Besides wat i've said above...sometimes if the other dun lke you anymore and just feel that both shouldnt be together it just wont work. Relationship just aint a 1 sided thing...it requires both side to work things. If both sides are not doing anything to make it work..then what is the point of having one?? It will end up strining one side and eventually lead to a break up...Of coz there is always the exceptions which i dun know how it works out wat i've said so far is just my thoughts....thoughts of my own, not a scholar, not a book writer or wat so ever famous...everyone has thier own thoughts
Ok i'm starting to talk crap here....you cant really blame it..wait u can if you want to..but i'm blaming the stress that i'm having at the moment..so just let me crap ard here would ya?!!...i just cant stop thinking abt....
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