BBQ...

Alrite On Friday morning headed over to Church for service, and later on in the afternoon for Isabel's Full Moon, but wont be posting anything about coz,the pictures is with Sin Kiew. Well that day we spend the whole day over at thier place just hanging out and eating. So basically that is how Friday went by....then came Saturday. We had BBQ over at E&E's place...

While the girls are out helping with setting up the table...Me and Darren were playing Street Fighter 4...wonder wat is Edwin trying to do with me head????

Chef Timo, with Assistant David at the pit....apprently David screech when he sees a cockroach

Erin cant wait to eat...look at that face of hers!!!

Hungry Msians + Food = Feast

Well not much of photos from that nite...since we were all busy eating....

Mel's Bday...

Alrite for the benefit of some readers, In Aust, Good Friday and Easter is a holiday. Yes that means Friday and Monday was an off day for those working...Thus the LONG WEEKEND!!! But the fun didnt started on Friday, it all started on Thursday nite....where we celebrated Mel's bday over at Strike. So here are some pics...Well it seems these are the 'nice pics' i receive...=P

A toast from the guys to the Bday Girl, and Cal what did you look at that your face is this way?!!...hmmmm

The Bday girl, Dave and Hua

Look at Erin bowl....apparently she was doing "very well" =P

Cyndi n me...

Dave's turn to Bowl...This is the only most completed group picture i have for the nite...

After 1 round of Bowling we head for karaoke....

David cant wait to sing his la-las song....look at him hogging to mics =P

Is Rah attempting to pull Jin Tat's hair nose?? maybe eye lashes....hmmm...or maybe both?!

Look at Erin sway while sitting....

Timo, Calvin n Darren trying to sing some emo love song but judging by their faces, they fail....

Well last but not least, when the clock strike 12, we sang and got Mel a cake....It was the the nite that started the long weekend....

The Smile...

The first time I met you

I saw the smile on your face

With that alone

I'm interested to know you more

Being together with everyone

We talked

We joked

We laugh

The more I want to know you better

Possibility of the future

I've thought of it

But that is not what I see alone

I got myself something

So everytime I'm out

I'll be reminded, be aware

Rushing into things is not what I want

But yet the thought of you never leaves

Whether to continue this journey

I do not know

I feel like letting go

But yet at the same time

I don't want to let opportunity go

Circumstances arise

Rejections I had enough

What should I do?

Persevere?

Let things be?

I do not know

Prayer is what I've been taught

Prayer is what I've done

And answer is what I want

It is not my place to demand

But I need a direction to head

I think in the end

Maybe is just not the time...

Annoucement...

Yeah!!...the long Mourndy Thursday/ Good Friday/ Easter Sunday weekend has finally over. And yes i will blog more about it, but not now...i need a better connectiong speed to upload the amount of photos. And i'm waiting for soem pictures from Mel's cam, so be patient dear readers!!

The path i'm taking...

When problem/ things/ situation arises, people like to avoid it rather than to confront it. Well i think that not all should be avoided or confronted. At the end it depends on the circumstances whether to avoid or confront.

Rite now, i'm in a middle of 1. But i choose to avoid it. I know to confront it...wont bring any good to anyone. So just avoid it. I dun care wat i'm doing is rite or wrong, healthy or not, stupid or smart, all i know is that rite now i'm feeling miserable for how things is going and i choose to take the path where everyone will be better off and to avoid that miserable feeling i've decided wat to do.

Silly and stupid it may sound. But i've make that decision. time to close that door and open another. Is it for better or worst, i do not know, all i know is that i got to move on and face wat is ahead. Whether i regret or not is yet to known, but even if i regret it i still choose that path for that is wat i've chosen.

This reminds me of the poem that i learn back in secondary school about the road not taken. 2 path to choose, which is better we wont know, we will always think of the path that i not taken when we had the chance. Wat i do learn is that to be content with the path we chose to take whether is good or bad...there is a reason it existed there.

Thoughts...

The brain is a mysterious i would say. When you want it to be thinking for something, it doesnt work. But when you dun wan it to think...rather just relax...it starts to think. At elast that happens to me. Lately i've been thinking alot in the car. I feel bad though coz usually when i think about stuff i'll keep quiet and just look into the distance and start thinking and wondering, but that leaves me and Mel who has been driving around quiet in the car. And is not just 1 day..but i think it has already been 2 days now...

Some of you must be wondering wat am i thinking....the problem is...i wish i could tell you in a concise, proper, summarise way. But unfortunately my mind dun work that way and thus the thoughts of one tangles with another and cause everything to be so huge and hard to be properly told. And once i'm able to sort one thought out....another will be just forgotten...like it took the back door of the brain and poof disappear...

Well you wanna know just ask me about it lar..mayb i will answer if i remember...=P

brief update....

Just got back home..and the first thing i did was use the toilet to do big biz. It has been a happening weekend. Well will post more about it when i got some pics. After a long long long time i dinally touched my saxophone again. Yeap, it has touch the grounds of Melbourne. And after long time of lack maintenance, the neck had some probs which the mouth piece suppose to be. But it still works fine if i dunt do much about it. Mayb i'll get a whole new saxophone when i work next time. Considering that i didnt touch it for a long long time. Ermmm...like 2 years plus probably...i still manage to play some songs, though with the drastic drop of stamina and proper playing. Mayb after some time with more playing, i will be able to manage the proper playing....stamina not easy to build it back, at least need to be constantly playing to get it back.

Issues...

One thing in a relationship there is always complications and break ups. 2 things that happen in relationship that brings down, sad, emo, frustration feeling to us.

Break ups, it has become so common to us that though when break ups first happen in our world is suppose to be a sad thing...but now it has become something like a common practice. Though the grief stills happen to one side or at times both but some just play around in relationships, just get into one and break up the next day. Those is wat i call dumb idiots.

Complications or commonly known as complicated status which has started in the olden days coz of things happening that they cant be together, has now too become common. For an instance, long distance, parents refusal, cultural barrier etc...To me, relationship is between 2 person, no matter wat, to be together or not...is still up to the 2 person. If long distance, yes there is the high risk, but to make it work...both do thier part. Parents refusal, abit hard...but convince them alr. Cultural barrier??...even things should work out easier...i mean wat age is this?? this is an age where cross cultural is a common thing. Look at Msia...there is already chinese with indians, chinese with the malays, malays with the indians. Even overseas has ang mo with asians. So wat does this cultural barrier has got to do with complications?!! of course there is many more complications, but at the end it still comes back to the 2 person lar...

Well....at the end of the day....is not me or any other who is out of the relationship...aka the 3rd party to be kepo about it. Just be sure to know that when they need some listening ear/advice or watever u call it, just be prepared and give opinion and not how to win the other side list....

Lost Generation...

Singlish....

No offense to singaporeans....just enjoy and laugh=P...

The Interest....

Ok...Had a great time yesterday nite over at Mel's for cg. Unfortunely...no pics...but the most important thing is we enjoyed ourself. We ate, shared, and played games....and it came to a point where all of us start playing mind games...and someone there is super blur that dun get all e mind games till explained....=P

Anyway....i was online after tht when i got back home. Then suddenly i had the interest in me to start asking questions...more of reactions/ opinions....and thus i've started asking around...hahaha...mayb will share it next post...it depends...i'll c how..

Movies updates....

Angus Thongs and Perfect Snogging, Punisher: War Zone, Harold and Kumar Escape From Guantanamo Bay, You Don't Mess With The Zohan, Slumdog Millionaire, Camp Rock, Resident Evil Degeneration, Bratz, Marley And Me

Have not been really watching movies lately...busy a little here and there....then just lost the mood to watch..but anyway..there is all i got for now...

Survey....

Alrite...i was minding my own biz and suddenly this thought came to my mind...and thus start my search for opinions....or more of reactions...

So the question,

1) let say a guy(for girls)/ a girl(for guys) that you know for about 2 -3 months and then suddenly came to you and said he/ she likes you, what would you do/say

Girls opinions :-

- Both shocked, 1 happy, another too bad
- I dun care if its one week or a year, if i like the guy, i'll just tell or hint n i know when i do or dun like that guy. It's like picking clothes and u see and u know you gotta buy it
- Say thank you, but depends on how much i know the person, if like normal friend i will just tell the fella whether i like him or not, got feel or not
-if dun like then just tell the truth, say sorry that he feels that way. If like, get to know one another more better

Guys opinions :-

- Get to know her better if like her, just spill the beans if dun like...
- If like get together, if dun try to get to know the person better den how things progress...feelings may come up when the time is rite
- If like ask out, if not probably say not looking


2) Let say you have been eyeing this guy(for girls)/ girl(for guys) that fits the prescription of your dream guy/ girl....what would you do to get his/ her attention??

Girls :-

- Nothing, if i dunno him who cares, eye candy.
- Be there for him, talk to him, and also tell him how i feel after i'm sure that he has feeling towards me too
- Wont do anything unless the guy do something

Guys :-

- Be friends??
- Try to joke with her, sarcasm works sometimes
- Nothing, not interested


3) Let say you've gotten his/ her attention....how do you move on from there??

Girls :-

- Make friends, get to him better, see interested or not
- Depends on how he accepts me, if he wants it to be like now, then just keep it as it is, but tell him i would be willing to wait
- Pursue the attention his giving

Guys :-

- Know her better
- Get in touch wit her more...calls...sms...meet ups
- On the spot kinda person, wont know wat will do until it happens


4) What do you first see in the person of the opposite sex, what attracts you to them??

Girls :-
- Face
- Fashion taste
- their looks and the way they carry themselves

Guys :-

- The looks
- Their character, eyes sometimes
- Looks, not interested in girls wearing who wear really provocative clothing or look ridiculously hot, its all going in 20 years time, sometimes chubby even i like, it depends

Memories....

Ok....after some search...there is just too many pics to post...heheh...so wat i'll do is just post links to the photos of the events....click and slowly enjoy and laugh at the photos if u wan to...if not jsut ignore this...

Farewell:
Ching Li's
My Cam

Sister's Nite:
Ching Li's
My cam

Brother's Nite:
Jlai's
My cam

Perhentian Trip:
there are 4 cameras during the trip..thus 4 albums....so i will just name them....1, 2, 3, 4
slowly go and open the pages....apparently all most of us cam whoring there =.="

Well there is more lar....just head over to here to check out other pictures lar...

Mailbox...

I cleared my mail just now...clearing those old outdated mails that has no use but storing up space in yahoo's server...and before clearing it is almost reaching 500 mails...and after clearing some left 370 plus....u can imagine the amout of junk i have in my mail..but some is just too funny or nice to just delete it. Oh and by clearing the mailbox..i found some memorable pics in it...mayb i should post it here...if i have not done it so....hmmm...let think about it first...whahaha...